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The Magic List

Alternatives to Punitive Discipline



"Catch" the child doing good things and notice

Anticipate trouble and distract to a positive

Give Gentle reminder

Use Humor

Offer choice: Now or in five minutes?

Give praise & compliments

Encourage

Clarify messages

Overlook small annoyances

Ignore provocations

Reconsider the situation

Point out consequences

Provide renewal time

Give hugs & caring

Arrange discussion among the children

Provide discussion with an adult